Are Alexia Nepola and Todd Still Together?
Alexia Nepola and Todd Nepola, what a saga, right? Their relationship, in true Real Housewives of Miami fashion, could honestly be its own telenovela, complete with last-minute twists and dinner table confessions. So, are they still together? The answer is messy, complicated, and, as of now, firmly a “no.” But let’s not get ahead of ourselves. It really is a journey.
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Their divorce was finalized in March 2025, not too long after a whole year of speculation and splintered “will-they-won’t-they” rumors. It was the kind of public breakup that left even their castmates surprised, a midnight disappearance, some blindsiding, and Alexia revealing she “never saw it coming.” She shared that after what felt like a typical romantic night, she went home and bam, everything of Todd’s was gone. No blowout fight. No ugly shouting match. He’d just quietly packed up and left, and she found out with their son as a witness. Honestly? That’s one for the books.
But here’s where it gets so “Housewives.” Even after the official split, Alexia and Todd kept cropping up in each other’s lives and beds. Weeks after the ink was dry on their divorce papers, they weren’t exactly rushing into new romances. There was therapy, “amicable” statements to magazines about the “next chapter,” and Alexia, always candid, admitting at a group dinner that she and Todd were still well, intimate. No, not a “booty call,” she clarified. “It’s not the walk of shame, because he’s my husband.” Honestly, you could hear the collective Housewives gasp echoing across Miami.
According to Bravo TV, on the September 11 episode of RHOM, this all spilled out in one of those conversations that start about something tame (“When was the last time you got laid?” thanks for breaking the ice, Kiki) and end with Alexia openly telling the world that she and Todd had been together just days before. This is the kind of TV that makes even the most jaded viewers pour another glass of wine.
Her friends’ reactions? A blend of support, side-eye, and genuine confusion. Marysol Patton, never one to hold back, admitted it was “exciting, yet scary” to think of a reconciliation. For a minute there, it felt like maybe, just maybe, romance would win out over all the rough patches. Alexia coyly hinted, “Soon, we’ll all be going out together again... I’m hoping for that.” It was classic Housewives optimism, utterly vulnerable, totally open-hearted, and more than a little wishful.
But the real world comes knocking. By July 2025, all those lingering questions were put to rest. Alexia confirmed they were officially “not talking,” explaining that she needed “distance and clarity.” In her own words: “I had to choose me. I had to do what was best for me right now. And for me, right now, I need peace and I need distance and I need clarity… I feel the best thing for me right now is just to be on my own.” Sometimes, after trying every which way to make it work, you just have to let it go. If there’s a lesson here for all of us, maybe it’s that breaking up (even messily, even publicly) is still better than slowly unraveling in a relationship that’s run its course.
The family angle adds another wrinkle. Alexia’s son, Peter, isn’t a fan of the idea of his mom and Todd reconciling, especially worried about how it would affect his brother Frankie. The emotional stakes are high, and not just for the cameras; it’s clear from Alexia’s candid confessions that the pain and hope were real. You don’t go through a heartbreak like that and come out unchanged.
So, where does it all land? Here’s the short version after a year of on-and-off, some truly raw TV confessions, and a lot of soul-baring therapy: Alexia and Todd are not together, no contact, no double dates on the horizon, no last-minute second act. Alexia’s moving forward, focusing on her family, friendships, and, maybe for the first time in a while, just herself. If you’re rooting for her, it’s not about “Team Alexia and Todd” anymore; it’s about “Team Alexia,” and honestly, after what she’s been through, that’s exactly the team she deserves to be on.
