Are Greta and Matthew From 90 Day Fiance Still Together?
No, on the show, Greta and Matthew are no longer together as a couple, even though the breakup is still very fresh, and Matthew clearly hasn’t emotionally checked out yet. Greta has already told him she doesn’t think she’s in love anymore, handed back the engagement ring, and then doubled down in that heavy sit‑down with his dad Mar,k where she admits, through tears, that her instincts are screaming he’s “not my person.”
What plays out in that scene you described is basically the emotional aftermath of a decision she already made a few days earlier: she’s choosing honesty over trying to “push through” a connection that stopped feeling romantic, even if it means walking away after just four days together in England and breaking the hearts of a whole family that welcomed her in.
Mark’s conversation with her really underlines how final it feels on his side too he talks about picking up the pieces with his son, says he doesn’t see hope for them at this stage, and still gently tells her that Matthew will probably love her for a long time, which is such a quietly brutal thing to hear when you’re the one leaving.
From Greta’s perspective, the split isn’t about some big scandal; it’s death‑by‑a‑thousand misalignments that built up over months of distance, different ideas about the future, even the day‑to‑day reality of moving into a cramped room in his parents’ cottage instead of the dreamy romantic escape she’d pictured.
She talks about feeling like they weren’t “evolving into people that were still compatible,” feeling disconnected for about six months, and then arriving in England only to realize that the off feeling wasn’t going away; if anything, it got louder once they were finally in the same space 24/7. There’s something painfully relatable there: sometimes the moment you’re “supposed” to feel the most in love, after a big international move, an engagement, all the sacrifices, is exactly when you realize the spark you were clinging to is mostly memory and momentum.
On Matthew’s side, the storyline is almost the opposite: he thought they were solid enough that “you don’t just suddenly not love someone,” and he genuinely did not see this coming, which is why he looks so shattered and why his dad steps in to ask Greta for her side.
The show leans into that emotional mismatch Greta has been quietly spiraling about compatibility, kids, money, and the future for months, while Matthew has been planning a life together and assuming any bumps are just “new country” stress they’ll work through. When Mark tells her, “you broke his heart, literally,” it’s blunt, but it’s also the clearest summary of where things stand: Matthew is still in love and willing to fight, whereas Greta is already grieving something she decided to end.
Right now, there’s no real sign that they’re secretly back together behind the scenes; everything on screen from Greta’s confession, to her returning the ring, to Mark saying he doesn’t think there’s hope “at this stage” frames this as a genuine breakup, not a cliffhanger lovers’ quarrel that magically resolves next week.
Could the Tell All or later episodes show them trying to rebuild some kind of friendship or even giving it another shot? Technically, sure; 90 Day Fiancé couples have boomeranged before. But with Greta trusting her gut enough to walk away this early, and Matthew needing time just to process being blindsided, it feels much more like the end of their romantic storyline and the beginning of two separate ones—hers about rebuilding in England or back home on her own terms, and his about healing from a breakup that played out in front of millions.
Disclaimer:
This article is based on currently aired episodes of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way and publicly available information. Relationship statuses on reality TV can change after filming. Viewers should treat this as an entertainment update, not a definitive, real-time record of Greta and Matthew’s personal lives.
